Being hands-on is a good principle of leaning; however
you have to identify situations where expert help is necessary. A prolonged struggle with one or several
steps towards your identified goals could dampen you motivation or derail you completely.
What
is self identified goal?
Your identified goal is a part of your vision. It
entails a set of tasks that lead to what you want to achieve during your
life. It signifies a passion towards
your life purpose and aligns to your given talents and spiritual gifts. You may perceive this is a light yoke, in the
sense that it wakes up in odd hours with clear and exciting insights that
perfect what you need to do to reach the desired destination. You are never
tired or stressed when you are engaged in tasks that lead to this type of
goals. Actually, you experience fulfillment; joy and peace that energize you to
affect others in a positive way.
How
to handle self identified goals challenges!
While you may have a clear picture of your destination,
you could experience challenges on how to get there. For an example, I knew that I wanted to pass
my degree with 80% plus, yet I realized that my average in accounting course
was 50%. I had to find a coach, a lecturer in the Institute of Accounting
Studies. I passed accounting course with credit for the first time; my total
grade was a second class. In this era of high technology and increased level of
knowledge, you are likely to experience some hurdles. Note the following common
challenges that could require specialized assistance:
1.
Career
plans: It could be that you did not access ideal counsel and
discovered midway during your university program that you are not suited for
the profession you are undertaking. Rather than ignore the situation, you may
consider consulting a career counselor who could show you possibilities of
linking what you are doing with that which you really want. For example, if you are doing business administration
and want to switch to medicines, do not despair; you have advantage because the
skill will come handy when you run your own surgery.
2. You feel lost or intimidated? Your
vision is designed to fit what you have but always requires more than your capability
because you need others to reach it.
Often when this truth is not yet revealed, you may feel lost,
intimidated or discouraged. Find a life
coach who will help you to find your own answers. For an example, it could be
that you are dealing with unidentified need. Spiritual needs are somewhat complex;
find a spiritual coach. It is amazing how spiritual mankind is! A coach will
not advise you, but will listen to you, ask you questions that will lead you to
clear strategies required to get to your destination. Whatever you want or need
is available. The good thing about the internet is that, help is a click away. The
most important role a coach does is to assist you with information – resources and
how to access them. A coach is a support you need; someone who will hold your
hand and cheer every step of your achievement.
3.
Your
goal is unattainable? Many resourceful people are affected by economic
recession or political instability and find that they are not able to get
started. This is true especially for aging people who did not have access to technology
at school or workplace. The starting
point is to register for internet literacy. You need this skill which may
enlarge your current job or open new opportunities. It will definitely come handy when you retire
and start your online business. It is worth hiring a coach to be able to identify
and utilize your given talents.
Take control of your life! Evaluate your content; you
will be amazed of how resourceful you are! Often you feel you have reached the
end of your life when you retire; that is the statement of your ego. Find help
and open new doors; there is always a chapter that needs to be written to
complete the picture of your existence!
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