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| If you dwell on rejection, your become a prisoner ...! Be content with life now! |
Mankind is a social being;
seeking to be loved and accepted by parents, family, community and the world at
large. The most common emotional wound is rejection. The remedy is learning to
be content with yourself, regardless of circumstances. This is a life-long process
of redefining and molding a new-you.
Rejected for maintaining your personal principles!
Rejection is painful even
if it is due to your high moral standards. It is double-injurious when it
occurs following a compromise that lowers values and or personal moral standards.
Before you let anyone override your personal principles, remember that it is almost
impossible to be perfect for anybody. In other words, it is important to be
yourself and let someone love you for who you are. That kind of relationship is
likely to survive the normal adjusting phase as you decide whether you can live
with someone’s habits and lifestyle. Forsaking your principle will not only
result in resentment, it reveals that you do not value yourself. It could be a
revelation that you have a low self-esteem. If you are rejected because of your
high standards, be happy! You have successfully managed to weed-out your
emotional garden; you have made a clear statement that you are in control of
your inner space.
Rejected after compromising your values!
Rejection after
compromising personal values is common among teens because it occurs during a phase
where the need for sense of belonging is very important. Often young adults
regard values learned from parents as not ‘cool’ and learn the hard way that
lowering standards is emotionally costly. Young girls get hard-hit by the first
love rejection wherein such emotional trauma could lead to self-doubt or and
fear of committing to relationships later in life. It is said that most street
girls have trapped emotional trauma from rejection. The tendency is to take
love out of the equation to the extent of making this sacred act of love, a
business transaction.
How to embrace self-contentment!
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| The simplicity of life is HOW you define it...! |
1.
Be content with the
totality of who you are – strengths and weaknesses.
2.
Keep your life
simple: Get out of the fast lane and stressful environment of high expectations
that are beyond your current resources.
3.
Be patient with yourself
when weeding out those undesirable habits. Do not be anxious nor judge yourself
when you relapse.
4.
Keep taps on your
life: Life does not happen to you; you create it every moment when you allow
your mind to be on auto-pilot mode. The remedy is to be alert and leave a
balanced life according to you.
5.
Choose to be happy
regardless of the circumstances; learn to be optimistic about your personal
growth.
6.
Be content with
yourself: Gradually address your emotional baggage through other
non-conventional healing techniques such as EFT, NLP and Emotion Code.
7.
Increase your self
esteem by writing your strengths and your weaknesses and daily commit to affirming
your strengths. This will diminish your focus and awareness of your
short-comings.
8.
Take care of your physical
body: You feel good when you have adequate weight; pay attention to grooming.
Adopting a happy attitude will greatly enhance your natural beauty and attract
pleasant and helpful people to you.
9.
Appreciate life:
When you love yourself, you will not allow others to abuse you. You will
appreciate nature and its abundance. The universe will respond favorable to
your positive energy by giving back that which you give, multiplied.
10.
Love unreservedly;
it is as natural as breathing!
Letting
go rejection is a conscious decision to take control of your life by ensuring
that you are proactive towards positive change; socially, physically and
spiritually. Embracing life is about being optimistic and expressing gratitude with
your thoughts first and openly by loving others unconditionally. Rejection
denotes withholding love; it is regarded as the root of many emotional and
physical ailments.
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