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| Change is within you when you choose a New - You! |
As you exited childhood, you experienced change physically, perceptually
and socially. The process of
understanding change got better as you got exposed to it through various social
institutions; revealing a wider and subjective view of the meaning of life to
you.
Change defined!
Change in the context of experiencing time and the quality of
interaction with others denotes deeper understanding of factors that contribute
to pleasant or unpleasant experiences over the period. It is being aware of the
actual trend you experienced life versus the subjective expectations of what
life should be. We all could identify ourselves with this change in terms of
the trend on relationships, financial success, health and career.
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| Only you can change you! |
Key contributors of your
subjective world and the need for change!
If you want to know the lifestyle of your neighbors, simply watch their
children playing: Their language, mannerism and values are displayed through
their children because children have capacity to absorb and project everything with
all their sensual ports. This good attribute is also the instrument of fundamental
fixation regarding the subjective view of the world as an adult because
whatever you heard from your caregivers became important components of your values
and belief systems. Change therefore is a necessary catalyst, which enable you
to unlearn and rebuild new values and beliefs. You have been changing
continually and each day will continue to build and shape your worldview if
you seek to change yourself and not others as follows:
1. Change is effective
when it addresses and modifies your identified blemishes. This means nothing
will impact you unless you are aware and receptive of it.
2. When you are aware
that your power to change is within, you will note that your world will change
when you change; thus confirming that what happens in your world reveals your
thoughts, feelings, words and actions. This therefore denotes that attempting
to change others is lacking the wisdom of how change occurs.
3. Every mistake should
have impacted you positively if you did not focus on the pain which attracted
more painful experiences or blaming others. Mistakes provided a much needed
database from which you could establish the trend of why and how you make them.
4. Your inner positive or
negative energy will determine how your impact others which will greatly
influence your attitude and believe system. You will notice that there is a
trend in how you managed previous relationships; especially colleagues and romantic
partners.
Inherently mankind would prefer if other people would behave according
to their values and beliefs. Relationships tend to be complex because we seek a
complete take-over of the other persons’ life to complete ours. Taking control
of your life is recognizing this emptiness that seeks an addition to self to
experience joy and completeness. It is important therefore to be fully aware of
our underlying psychological needs that manifest in various forms of
misconceptions. When we are able to see our
own emptiness, we will seek change that empowers us towards being enough; thus
lessening our dependency and demanding attitude from others.
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