Taking control: Re-write your life story in 2016

Your success and failure starts in your mind; so never be absent-minded!

Often we describe ourselves according to the point of view of those who socialize us because we believe everything adults say or do during our foundational stages. It is for this reason that I request you to take a moment to re-write your story from your subjective point of view!

You are what you believe you are!

Mankind is created after the likeness of the Creator and has power of creating anything with his mind and words. Everything you say or do started in your mind and manifests in words and actions. The major ingredient is feelings. They give shape or distinctive character of good or bad. If you are like me, I have just discovered that nobody really knows me; I am therefore the only person who can accurately describe my innermost thoughts of who I am and what principles motivates my thoughts and actions.

In my culture, mothers speak scornful words when they rebuke their children. Often they will point a flaw about whatever biological blemishes the father has in an insulting manner. So, would such a child be free of deep rooted shame about self? Very few parents know that such scornful comments are regarded as emotional abuse; this leaves a large number of parents who erred in that regard. 

  

What re-writing your story entails!

When you re-write your story you have to first erase the old version of what has been said about your personality traits:

1.    You are unique. This means whoever said anything about you described your mistakes and not you! Since most of the traits that describe you are inwards, it is highly possible that your parents and siblings are capable of describing you!

2.    It is important to re-write your story after internalizing the fact that you are a powerful being with the ability to recreate and be whatever you can imagine. Yes I said imagine because anything you imagine is a possibility and in essence is waiting to happen when you activate the power of your mind.

3.    Knowledge is power! Read the books and view videos about contributors of low self-esteem and how you can cut loose from the anchors of believing the lies. Next read the books about the natural laws and how they impact your current life view. For an example, if you have been told that you are slow-learner and therefore have limited ability to become what you desire and think about. Read a book about “Think and Grow Rich” and similar ones. You will emerge from the prison of poor socialization into a being that is unstoppable in whatever you perceive as a true self.

4.    How do you erase bad information? Engage in guided meditation about the power within and your ability to fly above storms of socialization. The danger of not cutting loose is that you may undervalue yourself to the point of letting your life go by and actually never discovering the true you!

Why it is important to re-write your story in 2016!

The true you is indeed amazing even to yourself!  After empowering yourself with the general

Start 2016 with determination
to daily discover a new you!

knowledge about individuality of a human being; it is important to discover who you are:

1.    Find who you are through free personality assessment tests under several theories including Jung.

2.    Learn about your emotional or financial intelligence. These are concepts that peal the socialization flaws and reveal the extent to which a person is equipped to prosper in this life.

3.    The Seven Intelligences is a tool that will point at your given strengths which determines your career.

4.    Meditation will help you to internalize these and enable you to take control of your life.

5.    Learn to accept failure as a learning curve and stepping stones that leads you to discover new strategies towards your life goals. All good things are the results of persistence; therefore regard any failure as a practice which gives you a refined insight to a specific challenge.

We live in the era of the revelation of the universe and its natural laws and how they impacts on us. Let 2016 be the time of refreshing; the time to cross over to the other side where the only restriction of self-discovery is inflicted by you. Let no one hinder you to be the best that you are; you are a creative being, a powerful and capable of becoming the best in whatever is given to you! Your task is to discover your gifts; they are keys that will open doors so that you can exit into prosperous 2016.